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Assalāmu' Alaykum w Rahmatullāhi w Barakātuh
(Peace be upon you, and the mercy of Allāh and His blessings)
Praise be to Allāh.
It is human nature to be forgetful, as the Arab poet said:
"He is only called man (insān) because of his forgetfulness (nasiyān), and it is only called the heart (al-qalb) because it changes so rapidly (yataqallib)."
In the past they said that the first one to forget (awwal nāsin) was the first man (awwal al-nās), meaning Adam, peace be upon him. Forgetfulness is something that varies from person to person according to each individual's nature; some may be more forgetful than others. Some of the things that may help to combat forgetfulness are the following:
"I complained to [my shaykh] Wakī' about my bad memory, and he taught me that I should keep away from sin.
He said that knowledge of Allāh is light, and the light of Allāh is not given to the sinner."
Al-Khatīb reported in al-Jāmi' (2/387) that Yahya ibn Yahya said: "A man asked Mālik ibn Anas, 'O Abu 'Abd-Allāh! Is there anything that will improve my memory?' He said, 'If anything will improve it, it is giving up sin.'"
When a person commits a sin, it overwhelms him and this leads to anxiety and sorrow which keeps him busy thinking about what he has done. This dulls his senses and distracts him from many beneficial things, including seeking knowledge.
Imām al-Zuhri said: "You should eat honey because it is good for the memory."
He also said: "Whoever wants to memorize hadīth should eat raisins." (From al-Jāmi' by al-Khatīb, 2/394).
Ibrāhīm ibn [sth. omitted] said, "You should chew resin gum, because it gives energy to the heart and gets rid of forgetfulness." (From al-Jāmi' by al-Khatīb, 2/397).
As they mentioned, too much acidic food is one of the causes of laziness and weak memory.
Allāh knows best.
W'ssalāmu'alaykum w rahmatullahi w barakatuh,
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